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Breastfeeding Tips for the Holiday Season

While the holiday season is busy for everyone, it can be downright overwhelming when you are nursing a baby. These breastfeeding tips will help you breeze through the holidays with both a happy mom and a happy baby.

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Breastfeeding Tip #1: Alcohol isn’t off-limits!

 

An occasional beer or glass of wine is compatible with breastfeeding. Toronto pediatrician Dr. Jack Newman sums it up well in this statement.

Reasonable alcohol intake should not be discouraged at all. As is the case with most drugs, very little alcohol comes out in the milk. The mother can take some alcohol and continue breastfeeding as she normally does. Prohibiting alcohol is another way we make life unnecessarily restrictive for breastfeeding mothers.

 

The level of alcohol in your milk peaks about an hour after drinking. To limit your baby’s exposure, nurse just before having a drink. You don’t have to pump and dump. As the alcohol is cleared from your bloodstream, the level in your milk will also go down. This article explains how it happens.

 

Want to read more about alcohol and breastfeeding? Read this article.

 

Breastfeeding Tip #2: There are no food restrictions.

 

Your older relatives may advise “Don’t eat that; it will make your baby gassy”. Years ago, breastfeeding women were handed a list of foods to avoid. Broccoli, beans, cabbage and spicy foods all made the list.We now know  this is just an old wives’ tale. Many of those foods are staples in other countries, consumed by breastfeeding women without problems.

 

The foods you eat may flavor your milk. This, however, is thought to be an advantage. Your baby will be exposed to different tastes very early in life, potentially avoiding a picky eater later.

 

The holiday season wouldn’t be complete without chocolate. Good news! You don’t need to deprive yourself of this either. Moderate amounts of chocolate are not a problem. The relationship between chocolate and breastfeeding is well explained in this La Leche League article.

 

Breastfeeding Tip #3: Feed often during the day.

 

Babies who are held and played with by visitors, may become overstimulated and spend a good part of the the day sleeping. If your baby sleeps through day time feeds, he will make up for it by feeding frequently at night.

 

Trust your instincts. If you feel your baby has had enough of visitor’s arms, it is okay to reclaim your baby. Continue to feed in your normal pattern, at least every two or three hours if your baby is a newborn.

 

Breastfeeding Tip #4: Consider babywearing.

 

Mothers whose babies are held close will be more aware of early feeding cues. This leads to happier babies as there is no need to cry.

 

Some moms dread large get togethers during the cold and flu season. If you are feeling uncomfortable having baby handled by visitors, wear your baby in a wrap. People can say hello and admire your baby without touching.

 

Breastfeeding Tip #5: Keep your self-expectations in check.

 

Breastfeeding a young baby takes at least eight to twelve hours a day. This leaves little time for shopping, baking and entertaining. Be realistic in what you have time to do. Give gift cards, purchase baking, and consider ordering in.

 

Schedule a guilt-free rest day during the holidays. Simply stay in your pyjamas, watch movies and breastfeed on demand. Nap whenever baby does. This may become your favorite holiday tradition!

 

Best wishes as you celebrate the holidays with your new baby.

You may also enjoy reading: Baby’s First Christmas: Celebrate without Losing Your Sanity and 6 Tips for Surviving the Newborn Period.

 


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About the authors:

Cindy and Jana are Registered Nurses and International Board Certified Lactation Consultants who have assisted over 20,000 families.

 

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How to Prepare for a New Baby on a Budget

Expecting a new baby soon? Bewildered by the vast array of products to buy? 

 

Here are 10 Baby Items You Don’t Need to Purchase

 

1. Change Table

Change tables are expensive and take up a lot of space. If you don’t have space for one, just gather a basket of changing supplies. Together with a change pad, you will be ready to do diaper changes on any flat surface!

Having supplies on each level of your home will prevent having to walk up and down the stairs. You will appreciate that in the early postpartum period!

 

2. Baby Bathtub

A baby bathtub is costly and will only be used for a short time. Save your money. Line your sink with a towel or put a couple of inches of water in your own bathtub and lean over the edge to do the bath.

 

3. Crib Bedding Set

Although they are adorable, you should pass on bumper pad and quilt sets. Bumper pads are not recommended, as they are a risk factor for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). The quilts, while beautiful, are rarely soft enough to use to wrap your baby.

 

4. Baby Laundry Soap

Most laundry soaps marketed for baby are more expensive than similar household products. Select a dye and fragrance-free, hypoallergenic laundry soap that you can use for your entire family.

 

5. Stuffed Animals

It can be tempting to buy soft teddy bears or other stuffed animals for your nursery. Babies, however, are not really interested in them for the first few months of life. In addition, safe sleep guidelines would caution against having these in your baby’s crib.

 

6. Fancy Baby Clothes

Babies grow quickly. It is not uncommon for babies to outgrow clothing before you have had a chance to dress them in it! Borrowing or purchasing second hand clothing is much more economical. Save your money for when your child is a teen and they really care about their clothing!

 

7. Baby Shoes

Baby shoes are so adorable but so unnecessary! They are probably not comfortable for baby either. There is no need to purchase baby shoes until your little one is walking.

 

8. Breastfeeding Products

Breastfeeding is a fantastic way to save about $3,000 in baby’s first year! There are many products marketed for breastfeeding women but most of them you will not need.

 

Some people like to use a breastfeeding pillow but bedroom pillows can be easily substituted if needed. Once you and your baby have had a bit of practice, you will find that no pillows will be needed at all!

 

Women have the right to breastfeed anytime, anywhere. Nursing covers have become popular but you do not need to use one! Do whatever works to make yourself comfortable; we support you either way!

 

If you are considering purchasing a breast pump, this article will help you to decide what type of pump to purchase, or whether you really need one at all!

 

Sign up for our FREE email series “Getting Ready to Breastfeed.” We will increase your confidence by sending you what you need to know before your baby arrives.

 

9. Fancy Garbage Can

Fancy nursery garbage cans are marketed for odor control. Simply taking out the trash often can easily substitute for making this purchase.

 

10. Wipes Warmer

This is a luxury item and by no means a nursery necessity. To warm a wipe, simply hold it in the palm of your hand for a few seconds. Consider using a washcloth and warm water as a way to save even more!

 

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Worth Spending Money On

 

There are 2 items we think you should purchase before baby’s arrival.

1. Car Seat

Car seats have expiry dates as plastic will break down over time. We do not recommend purchasing a car seat second hand as it is important to know the car seat’s history. Even if there is no visible damage, the plastic may have been weakened by being dropped or having been in an accident. The instruction booklet for the car seat is invaluable as you learn to adjust it to fit your baby.

2. Breastfeeding Class

Statistics show that families who learn about breastfeeding before their baby arrives feel more confident and less stressed. Knowing a little about how breastfeeding works and how newborns behave will go a long way to giving you the newborn experience you are longing for. We’ve created an online class to teach you what you need to know, Simply Breastfeeding. Sign up here.

 

We would love to know what baby items you felt were essential and which ones you wished you had not purchased. Please comment below!

 

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Continue learning by reading this post: Preparing to Breastfeed During Pregnancy or check out Cindy &Jana’s Prenatal Breastfeeding Classes.

 


 

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Cindy and Jana are Registered Nurses and International Board Certified Lactation Consultants who have assisted over 20,000 families.

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Preparing to Breastfeed during Pregnancy

When you are expecting, it is easy to focus on labor and delivery and forget to prepare for what comes next. You are already ahead of the game by reading this post! Women who prepare before their baby arrives feel significantly more confident and encounter less problems breastfeeding their newborn. Check out our breastfeeding classes here.

Nipple preparation?

Good news! You don’t have to do anything physically to prepare to breastfeed. Your body is already doing the work for you, developing ducts and milk making tissue.

You also don’t need to prepare your nipples for breastfeeding. Years ago, friction with a rough towel was recommended prenatally but it was actually found to do damage.

Women’s nipples come in many different shapes and sizes. A breastfeeding baby latches to the breast, not to the nipple. Unusually shaped nipples are rarely an issue. If you have concerns about the shape of your nipples for breastfeeding, speak to your doctor, your midwife or an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant.

Have a birth plan

Limiting medications and interventions during labor and birth (whenever possible) is a great first step in helping your newborn learn to breastfeed.

Talk to your healthcare provider about having your baby skin to skin immediately after birth. (Learn why it is important here.) Breastfeed as soon as possible, ideally within the first hour.

Parents delivering in a hospital have found it helpful to create a card for baby’s bassinet saying: “I am a breastfed baby… no formula or pacifiers please!”

Keep your newborn near you so that you can respond quickly to baby’s earliest hunger cues.

Learn about normal newborn feeding behavior

Newborns feed often! It is easy to misinterpret frequent feeding as a sign of not enough milk. Feeding 10, 12, 14, 16 times or more a day is not unusual. Learn more by reading our post How often will my Newborn feed?.

Make a plan for the first 2 weeks after baby’s birth

Breastfeeding is time consuming. Newborns feed often. Both you and your baby will be learning. Having the time and privacy to learn is essential.

New parents frequently tell us they had too much company in baby’s first few weeks. Take some time now to make a plan for handling visitors. We explore this further in video #3 of our free course Getting Ready to Breastfeed. Watch it now and download the PDF worksheet to get started.

Planning ahead will help to save your time and energy for the important task of breastfeeding.

Surround yourself with supports

Begin surrounding yourself with other moms who have had positive experiences with breastfeeding. Ask them to be your support team once baby arrives You may want to attend a La Leche League meeting (mother-to-mother support) prenatally.

If you prefer online mom-to-mom support, join our Simply Breastfeeding Moms Facebook group.

Take a class

There is an overwhelming amount of information available both online and in print. Unfortunately, not all of it is good information supported by evidence.

Sign up for our free online email series, Getting Ready to Breastfeed. We’ll discuss “Is Breastfeeding going to hurt?”, why skin to skin is important, the best ways to prevent breastfeeding problems and more.

If you’d like a more in depth class, we’ve put together a 12 video course, Simply Breastfeeding. Check it out here. (Note: you can preview the breastfeeding positions lesson for free. Simply scroll to the bottom of this page.)

Prefer to learn through books?

These are some of our favorites.

5 Crucial Ways to Prepare for Breastfeeding a FREE ebook by Cindy Leclerc and Jana Stockham.

Dr Jack Newman’s Guide to Breastfeeding by Dr. Jack Newman and Teresa Pitman. Written in a readable, no nonsense style.

Breastfeeding Made Simple: 7 Natural Laws for Nursing Mothers by Nancy Mohrbacher and Kathleen Kendall-Tackett.  How to avoid and overcome breastfeeding challenges.

The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding by Diane Wiessinger. La Leche League’s wonderful guide to breastfeeding.

 

Equipment for breastfeeding

There are many products on the market for breastfeeding women. Fortunately, all you really need is your breast and the baby!

Here’s our take on 5 common breastfeeding products:

  1. Nursing bras: You do not need a nursing bra to breastfeed however many women purchase one for the convenience. If you choose to buy a nursing bra, wait until you you are at least 36 weeks pregnant to judge the size you will need.
  2. Nursing Pads:  Not all moms leak milk. Those who do may only leak for a short time. Begin with a limited supply of nursing pads and purchase more if you need them.
  3. Breast pumps:  Not every breastfeeding mother needs a breast pump. Many moms find they prefer to hand express for occasional  bottles or to establish a “stash”. To learn more about hand expression, see this post.
  4. Breastfeeding pillows:  Some moms find that a breastfeeding pillow is convenient but it is not necessary. You could use bedroom pillows instead. If you choose to purchase a breastfeeding pillow, remember that all bodies are shaped differently so you may need to shop around for one that best fits your body.
  5. Formula samples:  You do not need to have formula samples “just in case”. Not having formula in the house has been shown to increase breastfeeding success. Be wary of signing up for “free products” as you will often receive formula. If you receive free samples, consider donating them to your local food bank to avoid the temptation of using it during a long or fussy night.

Believe in yourself

A woman’s body is an amazing! Believe in your ability to provide the right food at the right time and at the right temperature for your baby.

Best wishes as you prepare for your breastfeeding journey.

(Banner photo courtesy of Flickr: Frank de Kleine)

Learn more about breastfeeding: Bras to Breast Pumps: What do you really need for breastfeeding? and Positions for Breastfeeding.


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Before Baby’s First Word: How Baby Communicates

Even though babies do not usually say their first words until they are close to 1 year of age, they begin to communicate with us much earlier.

How do babies communicate before they start to talk?

By 2 months of age, most babies will:

  •       Look at you and make eye contact when you talk to them
  •       Laugh and coo
  •       Show interest in people
  •       Have different cries for different reasons

By 4 months of age, most babies will:

  •       Babble to themselves and others
  •       Make a variety of sounds such as coos, gurgles, and cries
  •       Copy sounds
  •       Laugh and smile in response to your laughs and smiles

By 6 months, most babies will:

  •       Make sounds to express pleasure and displeasure
  •       Make sounds back to you when you talk to them
  •       Respond to their own name
  •       Play with sounds when alone and with others
  •       Try to interact with others

At 6-12 months of age, most babies will:

  •       Make sounds, babble often, and try singing with you
  •       Copy your actions such as clapping and banging toys
  •       Copy your sounds such as coughing, kissing, and clicking your tongue
  •       Communicate with you by pointing, reaching, and making sounds
  •       Have fun repeating the sounds they make
  •       Shout or make noises to gain attention
  •       Shake their head for “no” (around 9 months of age)
  •       Wave hello/good-bye (around 11 months of age)

How can you help your baby to communicate?

  • Talk to your baby about what you are doing during the day even if it is something as simple as folding laundry, making lunch, or changing your baby’s diaper. Repetition and routine help babies attach meaning to what they see and do.
  • Copy the sounds, actions, and facial expressions that your baby makes. This will help them learn that what they say and do are important.
  • Give your baby time to copy your sounds and actions.  This teaches them simple turn-taking skills.
  • Play face-to-face.  Get down to your baby’s level and look into their eyes.  Look at what your child is looking at and talk about what they see and do.
  • Read with your baby. Do not worry about reading books word-for-word.  Instead, when your child is looking at or holding a book, talk about what they are doing and what they see on the pages.
  • Sing with your baby.  Singing helps with language development, memory and listening skills, imitation, and turn-taking.  It is okay if you do not know the words to songs – you can make them up or change them to be meaningful to your baby.

When should you be concerned?

Does your baby:

  • By 6 months, smile or show other warm, joyful expressions?
  • By 9 months, share sounds, smiles, or other facial expressions with you?
  • By 12 months, Babble and use gestures with an adult, such as pointing, showing, reaching, or waving?
  • By 16 months, say their first words?
  • By 24 months, combine two-words into phrases (e.g., “more milk”, “hi mom”)?

Contact your local *Speech-Language Pathologist if:

  •       You answered “no” to any of these questions
  •       You have concerns
  •       Your child shows any loss of speech, babbling, or social skills at any age
  •       Your child has a history of frequent ear infections
  •       You have questions or concerns about your baby’s feeding or communication skills
  •       You would like more ideas for interaction with your child

(*A Speech Language Pathologist, or SLP, works with people from all walks of life. SLPs help with all areas of communication including speech, language, voice, and fluency (or stuttering).   They can also help with feeding and swallowing difficulties in all age groups.)

Do you live in the Saskatoon, Saskatchewan area? In Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, phone 306-655-2434.  In rural areas near Saskatoon, phone 306-655-4700.

 

If you live outside the Saskatoon area or would like more information on feeding, communication, or finding an SLP in your area visit: www.sac-oac.ca or www.hanen.org.

 


 

This guest post is written by Bonnie Quiring Gallen, MSLP, S-LP (C) on behalf of Saskatoon Health Region Population Public Health. Bonnie is a Speech Language Pathologist, and mother to two children, ages 2 and 7 years old.

 

 


 

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Bras to Breast Pumps: What do you really need for breastfeeding?

There are many products on the market for breastfeeding women. In this post, we will help you wade through the available accessories and give you guidance on what you will need to purchase.

If your budget is tight, we have good news! There is nothing essential that you MUST purchase. All you truly need for breastfeeding is a mom and a baby.

Here is our take on 7 commonly purchased products:

 

  1. Nursing bra

Nursing bras are very convenient but they are not an essential for breastfeeding. If your budget is tight, you can wear a regular bra. Simply unfasten and lift the cup for feeds.

If you plan to buy a nursing bra, we would suggest waiting until you are at least 36 weeks pregnant to better judge what size you will need. In the first few days after birth, your breasts will become larger as they fill with milk. This increase in size is temporary. Your breasts gradually adjust to the amount of milk your baby is taking. By 2 or 3 weeks after birth, your breast size will likely be close to the size at the end of your pregnancy.

Underwire nursing bras are not recommended for breastfeeding women. Pressure from the wire can prevent some of the milk ducts from emptying, increasing your risk for a breast infection.

 

  1. Nursing Pads

Nursing pads are pieces of absorbent material you can wear in your bra to soak up leaking breast milk. They help to keep your shirt from getting wet. There are both reusable and disposable breast pads available for purchase.

Some breastfeeding mothers will leak milk for a few days, others will leak for many weeks. Still others will leak very little or not at all. (Note: You can still have a great milk supply even if you do not leak.) Because you don’t know how many nursing pads you will need, we would suggest you limit the number of pads you purchase prenatally. You can always pick up more once baby arrives.

 

  1. Breast pump

There are many different breast pumps on the market. At prenatal breastfeeding classes, we are often asked what type to purchase. It is important to know that a breast pump is not a nursing essential. Maternity leaves vary in length and every family’s situation is different.

Even if you have to return to work soon after your baby’s birth, hand expression is a great option for your to explore. It is low cost, always available and for many moms, more effective than a pump.

If you are more comfortable using an electric breast pump, beware of purchasing used. Pumps designed for single use have an “open system”; there is potential for milk to accidentally enter the pump mechanism. Research has shown that some viruses and bacteria can be transmitted through breast milk. There is no way to disinfect these pumps between users, even if your purchase a new kit and tubing.

Note: Hospital-grade pumps available for rent are designed with a “closed system”. With a new kit and tubing, more than one woman can safely use them.

To learn more about breast pumps, read this post.

 

  1. Breastfeeding pillow

A breastfeeding pillow can be convenient when you are learning to breastfeed, but it is certainly not a necessity. Many women choose to use bedroom pillows instead.

If you plan to purchase a breastfeeding pillow, remember that all bodies are shaped differently. You may need to shop around for one that best fits your post-baby body. Women who are long-waisted may need a thicker pillow than those who are short-waisted or have larger breasts.


Learn some basics about breastfeeding BEFORE baby arrives with our FREE email series, Getting Ready to Breastfeed. Get started here.


 

  1. Nipple cream

Nipple creams are popular but recent research has shown that they are not effective and may even delay nipple healing! A recent study tested lanolin-based nipple cream along with 3 other products. They found that rubbing a few drops of breast milk onto your nipples (or using nothing at all!) was more beneficial than using a cream.

A second piece of good news from this study was that no matter what treatment was used, most nipple pain was reduced to a mild level by the time baby was 7 to 10 days old.

 

  1. Nursing cover

Nursing covers are popular and may be something you are considering for purchase. Before you do, we want you to know that you have the right to breastfeed anytime, anywhere, without covering up. Have a look at the billboards and magazine ads around you. You will see more flesh exposed than you would ever see with a woman nursing her baby.

Some mothers, however, tell us that a nursing cover made them feel more confident breastfeeding in public when they were first learning. If this is the case for you, go for it. But feel free to discard it once you are able to latch your baby with ease.

 

  1. Formula samples

If you are planning to breastfeed, we would not recommend purchasing formula to have on hand. Research has shown that breastfeeding women who do not have formula in the house are more likely to reach their breastfeeding goals.

If you receive formula samples in the mail, consider donating them to your local food bank before your baby arrives. This will help you avoid the temptation to give formula unnecessarily during a long or fussy night.

 

Learn more about preparing to breastfeed in these posts: Preparing to Breastfeed during Pregnancy and How to Prepare to Breastfeed When you Have Inverted Nipples.

 

**If you’d like to learn even more, sign up for our Prenatal Breastfeeding Class.**


 

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Cindy and Jana are Registered Nurses and International Board Certified Lactation Consultants who have assisted over 20,000 families.


 

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Breastfeeding – Getting Started

 A great start to breastfeeding begins during pregnancy. Knowing what is normal can help to smooth out some of the bumps you may encounter.

Before baby is born

If your baby has not yet arrived, download our FREE ebook and learn 5 things you can do NOW to make getting started with breastfeeding easier and less stressful. 5 Crucial Ways to Prepare for Breastfeeding. Download it here.

Baby’s first 24 hours

Once baby arrives, snuggle in close skin to skin contact for at least an hour after birth if possible.

Breastfeeding can take a bit of practice. Both you and baby will be recovering from birth. Babies are often in a quiet alert state for the first hour after birth. This is a great time for a first feeding attempt.

Once baby latches, try to limit distractions. This is a special time and you have waited a long time for this first introduction! Most procedures, such as a baby bath, can wait.

The colostrum your baby receives in early breastfeeding is important for baby and has been referred to as “baby’s first immunization!”

After the first quiet alert stage, your newborn will enter a state of deep sleep and will be difficult to wake to feed. This may be a better time for mom and baby to get some rest. When baby wakes from this deep sleep, try breastfeeding again.

Rooming in is important as you start to learn your newborn’s feeding cues. Cues your baby may be ready to feed include:

  • stirring and stretching
  • turning the head with an open mouth (“rooting”)
  • bringing hands to his mouth
  • making sucking motions

Crying is a late sign of hunger. If your newborn is already crying, try to calm baby prior to offering the breast by holding close, talking quietly, or rocking gently.

If your baby has not latched by 6 hours of age, hand expression will stimulate your body to begin the milk production process. Drops of colostrum expressed can be fed to baby on a spoon.

Be patient. Most babies will eventually latch to the breast. It sometimes can take a bit of patience and practice!

24-48 hours after birth (Day 1-2)

During this stage you can expect your baby to have at least one wet and one dirty diaper. Baby will be passing black sticky stool called meconium (see photo here). You should start hearing the occasional swallow at the breast, a soft “cah” sound.

It is normal for nipples to feel “tender” as you get used to breastfeeding. If you would describe your nipples as “sore” or if you find yourself curling your toes with pain, please ask for help! The earlier you get help, the better for both you and baby.

48-72 hours after birth (Day 2-3)

adorable-22040_640On Day 2, baby’s feeding pattern changes and you may start to wonder if you have enough milk. Baby will want to be at the breast frequently, sometimes still rooting or chewing on hands after feeds. This may be tiring for you as you may feel like all you are doing is breastfeeding!

It is important to try to sleep when the baby does as baby may only have one longer stretch of sleep in 24 hours. The frequent feeding at this stage is a signal to your body to make more milk. When you express a drop of milk you may notice a change from the golden colostrum color to a whiter, watery appearance.

You may start to notice your breasts feeling heavier. As the breasts get heavier, your baby will begin to swallow more frequently during feeds. After a feed your baby will be content and relaxed and go to sleep. Your baby’s stools will enter the “transitional” stage (see photos here). You may notice a pinky orangy color resembling brick dust in the baby’s urine (see a photo here). It is normal at this stage. The urine should become colorless and free of brick dust in the next few days.

Day 3-5

During this time, your breasts may feel overly full and tender. This is normal. Your breasts will adjust to the amount your baby needs over the next few days. A few minutes of massage and warm compresses prior to feeding may help the milk to flow. Cool compresses after the feed may help with swelling.

If the areola (the brown area around the nipple) is too firm you may find your baby slips off the breast with latching attempts. Try moving the swelling away from the nipple and areola with counter pressure.

You will hear louder and more frequent swallows during this stage. After breastfeeding on the first side, burp baby and offer the second side. Do not be alarmed if your baby is not interested in the second side. Baby’s tummies can hold only a limited amount of milk. One side may be enough.

If your baby wants to eat an hour later, it does not mean that she did not get enough the first time. A full tummy of milk can be digested in 90 minutes or less!

Your baby’s weight will begin to increase. Newborns typically gain about 20-30 grams per day (almost 1 ounce). More than this is not a concern. A breastfed baby can never gain too much!

Baby’s stools will become watery, bright mustard yellow and curdy (see photo here).

If your breasts are heavier, the feeds are comfortable, and your baby is gaining, you are off to a great start! You have worked hard to get to this stage and are probably a bit sleep deprived. Sleep when the baby does, limit company and try to focus on caring for yourself.

If you are struggling with breastfeeding, seek help as soon as possible from a healthcare professional or International Board Certified Lactation Consultant.

Surrounding yourself with other breastfeeding mothers can be invaluable! Ask your community health nurse if there are mother’s groups that she can suggest.


Learn more about why breastfeeding is important in our free video course, Getting Ready to Breastfeed.

Learn even more in our online Simply Breastfeeding course (12 videos that teach you everything you need to know about breastfeeding).


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References and More Information:

  1. Average Weight Gain for Breastfed Babies.” KellyMom.com. 11 Apr. 2016. Web.
  2. Bonyata, Kelly. “Breastfeeding your newborn — what to expect in the early weeks.” KellyMom.com. 01 Mar. 2016. Web.
  3. Establishing Your Milk Supply.” lllc.ca, La Leche League Canada, 2010. Web.
  4. Holmes, Allison V., Angela Yerdon McLeod, and Maya Bunik. “ABM Clinical Protocol #5: Peripartum Breastfeeding Management for the Healthy Mother and Infant at Term, Revision 2013.” Breastfeeding Medicine 8.6 (2013): 469-73. Bfmed.org. Web.
  5. Newman, Jack, MD, FRCPC, and Edith Kernerman, IBCLC. “Breastfeeding – Starting Out Right”, 2009. Web.
  6. When will my milk come in?” KellyMom.com. 15 Mar. 2016. Web.
  7. Weight Gain and Knowing Baby Is Getting Enough Milk.” La Leche League Canada. N.p., n.d. Web.

 

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What Foods Increase Milk Supply?

Lactation cookies… oatmeal…  spinach… salmon… flaxseed… brewer’s yeast… garlic….

These foods have all been suggested to increase milk supply. But do they actually work? If only it was that easy! While trying different foods can have nutritional benefits, there is no evidence that any one food that will increase milk production.

Many women worry they don’t have enough milk. It is the number one reason women stop breastfeeding. Most of the time, they actually do have enough milk. Learn how to know your baby is getting enough in this post.

Normal newborn behaviours, such as frequent feeding, ‘cluster’ feeding and growth spurts can be misinterpreted as having a low milk supply. If extra milk is given by bottle, baby will breastfeed less often. This becomes a downward spiral as breast milk supply relies on baby feeding more frequently during these times, not less frequently.

 

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Breastfeeding your baby often and on demand is the very best way to increase milk supply. Learn other tips for increasing milk supply here.

There is some evidence that herbs, such as fenugreek, blessed thistle or alfalfa can act as a galactogogue (a substance that increases milk supply). Caution is recommended when using any herb, just as you would be careful when taking a medication. Two respected IBCLC’s (breastfeeding specialists) that have written about herbal galactagogues are Kelly Bonyata and Dr. Jack Newman. Read what they have to say here and here.

So go ahead and enjoy whatever foods you have heard may increase your supply, lactation cookies included! While there is no research indicating their effectiveness, it certainly won’t do any harm. But be sure to relax and breastfeed often as well.

 

Related post: Foods to Avoid While Breastfeeding and How to Increase Your Supply of Breast Milk.


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How Often will my Newborn Feed?

If you are a new or expectant parent, you are going to hear a lot of conflicting advice about how often to feed your newborn baby.

Never wake a sleeping baby!”

“Your baby must feed at least every 3 hours.”

So what is the right answer? Well, it depends. Babies change quickly over the first couple of weeks. Advice that makes sense for a baby at birth will not be the same as when he is a couple of weeks or older.

In this post, we will walk you through the first couple weeks with your baby, explaining how you can know how often to feed. (Note: This post refers to healthy, full term babies. If your baby was born prematurely or with medical issues, please check with your healthcare provider as your baby may have different needs.)

 

The first 24 hours

In the first hour or two after birth, babies are quiet and alert slowly taking in their new surroundings. They show interest in feeding by sucking on their hands and searching with an open mouth. Being  skin to skin against mom’s bare chest helps baby adjust to the outside world and be ready for the very first breastfeed.

After this first alert time, babies enter a drowsy period that lasts for most of the next 24 hours. They often need to be reminded to feed. If it has been three hours since your baby fed, try gently unwrapping him. Stroke him with your fingers. If these gentle reminders don’t work, usually a diaper change does the trick.

If your baby doesn’t latch, express a drop of milk onto your nipple. This may be entice your baby to lick and taste. Think of it as practicing breastfeeding. (Learn more in this post: When Baby Won’t Latch to the Breast).

 

24 – 48 hours old

Once babies turn 24 hours old, they typically become much more awake. They demand to feed, often! Parents wonder what happened to their content baby and they worry if mom has enough milk.

Baby’s non-stop desire to feed is normal, exactly what we expect for babies of this age. Follow your baby’s cues and feed as frequently as your baby wants. (This could even be every hour!) It may be tempting to use a pacifier but it is best not to. The frequent feeding will signal your body to begin making a larger volume of milk.

This stage is very tiring! You won’t be getting much rest. Limiting your visitors will help you to save your energy for the important job of breastfeeding. We talk about this in more detail in our free ebook 5 Crucial Ways to Prepare for Breastfeeding. Download a copy here.

 

2 – 4 days old

Around three days after birth, you will begin to feel your breasts becoming heavier. When you express a drop, you will see that it is changing from the golden color of colostrum (the first milk) to a whitish color. Your baby continues to feed often; 10 – 14 times or more a day is not unusual. Baby may sleep for a 3 hour stretch between feeds once or twice a day.

If your baby doesn’t wake to feed at least every 3 hours, go ahead and remind him to eat. Some newborns need reminders to eat in the early days, especially if they are jaundiced or were born prematurely. You won’t have to do this forever.

 

After 10 days

Once your baby is breastfeeding well and has regained his birth weight, you can relax. You no longer need to watch the clock. Simply follow your baby’s feeding cues.

Just when you think you have your baby’s pattern figured out, however, your baby will change again. Suddenly, he may be demanding to feed every hour again. This is referred to as a “frequency day” or “growth spurt”. Growth spurts can occur at any time but are common around 10 days to 2 weeks and again at 1 month old. They generally last only a day or two. The best way to get through these spurts is to feed as just as often as baby wants. Frequent feeding will boost your milk supply to meet baby’s fast growing needs.

There is no one right answer to how often a newborn baby should feed. It can depend on many factors such as your baby’s age, how quickly baby is growing and how well he is breastfeeding. Try not to compare your baby’s feeding pattern to that of other babies. Every baby is unique. In our prenatal breastfeeding classes, we ask parents to recall how often they ate or drank in the last 24 hours. It is fascinating to see how different adults can be (and how often we put something in our mouths). The same is true for babies. If your baby is having enough wet and dirty diapers, is content after feeds and gaining weight well, your baby is feeding on the pattern that is right for him.


Don’t wait until your baby arrives to think about breastfeeding. Download our free ebook: 5 Crucial Ways to Prepare for Breastfeeding.


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You can learn more about newborn care in these posts: The Importance of Skin to Skin and 6 Keys to Surviving the First Week Home with Baby.


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Cindy and Jana are Registered Nurses and International Board Certified Lactation Consultants who have assisted over 20,000 families.

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How to Breastfeed: Getting a Deep Latch

It can take a bit of practice to get a comfortable latch when you are learning how to breastfeed.

Why latch matters

Baby’s latch is important for 2 reasons:

  • A ‘deep latch’ can help to prevent sore nipples. If your baby is latched ‘shallowly’ he will be mostly sucking on the nipple, compressing it with every suck. This can lead to sore cracked nipples. Ouch! When your baby is well latched, your nipple will be far back in his mouth, preventing compression.
  • A ‘deeply latched’ baby can draw more milk from the breast. Getting more milk will not only help your baby to gain weight but it will also help to ensure you have a plentiful milk supply as your baby grows.

Signs of a good latch

1. Your nipples are comfortable during breastfeeding

A bit of discomfort when baby first latches is not unusual.  Many women describe it as a tugging sensation. Tenderness, however, should ease off quickly once your baby begins to suck. If you feel pain or pinching after the first few sucks, take your baby off the breast. (Be sure to break the suction first by inserting your finger into the corner of baby’s mouth.) Try latching again using the instructions below.

If you continue to have pain despite getting a deep latch seek help from an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC)There could be other factors involved such as a tongue-tie or a yeast infection.
2. Your baby’s chin touches the breast

When latching, tuck your baby in close to your body with his chin touching your breast. This will help him to take in as much breast tissue as possible. Baby’s nose can be touching the breast as babies can breathe from the sides of the nose. If there is dimpling in the baby’s cheeks or a smacking noise during the feed, re-latch baby as these can be signs of a shallow latch.

3. Baby’s lips are curled outward

When baby is latched deeply and has lots of breast tissue in his mouth, his lips will curl outward “like fish lips.” If despite your best efforts, your baby’s top lip doesn’t flange outward and you are having pain, talk to an IBCLC. There can sometimes be restrictive tissue under the lip (called a lip tie).

4. Your nipple is round after feeds

Your nipple should be round after feeding. If your nipple is slanted like a tube of new lipstick or has a white line across it, the latch is not quite right.

Run your tongue along the roof of your mouth from the front to the back. The “junction of the soft palate” is where the roof of the mouth goes from hard to soft. Ideally, your nipple should reach this spot, far back in your baby’s mouth. This will prevent too much pressure on your nipple during feeding.

5. Your baby is gaining weight

To effectively remove milk from the breast, babies need to be latched deeply. If your baby is not gaining weight as quickly as he should, have the latch assessed by someone skilled in assisting with breastfeeding. Sometimes a deeper latch is all it takes!

If a decreased milk supply is part of the problem, how to boost your milk supply.

How to get a deep latch

Being skin to skin helps to encourage your newborn’s natural feeding instincts. Having baby close to the breast helps him learn to feed. The darkening of your areola (the colored area around your nipple) during pregnancy helps your baby to locate your breast.

Some babies can latch themselves to the breast, while others require some gentle guidance.

A lot of mothers like the laid back nursing position. To use this position:IMG_1246-1

  • Find a comfortable place to lean back with lots of pillows for support. You want to be back far enough so that gravity will keep the baby close. The baby can be at any angle that is comfortable, as long as the baby’s chest and tummy is against your chest. (For best success, try this skin to skin rather than with a shirt on as in the photo.)
  • Use your arms to support your baby in whatever way feels most comfortable.
  • Your baby will “bob” around for a bit, using his arms and legs to reposition himself until he latches himself to the nipple.

If your baby needs more help latching, the cross cradle or football positions can work well. They provide extra support for baby.


Click here to watch a video about breastfeeding positions (scroll to the bottom of the page and select the preview lesson).


How to latch baby deeply in the cross cradle or football hold:

  1. Support your baby with your hand between baby’s shoulders, fingers at the base of baby’s head, just behind the ears.
  2. Hold your breast with the other hand, thumb and fingers forming a ‘C’; keep your fingers well back from the nipple.
  3. Baby’s head should be facing forward and not turned over his shoulder.
  4. Position your baby with your nipple across from baby’s nose.
  5. Tickle baby’s upper lip with your nipple.
  6. Baby should respond by opening widely and lifting his chin.
  7. Aim your nipple toward the roof of baby’s mouth.
  8. Baby’s chin should touch the breast first.
  9. Baby’s bottom lip should be further from the base of the nipple than the top lip (not centered in baby’s mouth). Baby’s lips will be curled outward.
  10. Baby’s nose can be touching the breast; baby can breathe from the sides of the nose. (Rest assured, your baby will unlatch if not getting enough air.)

To see step-by-step photos of a baby latching, download the Latch PDF accompanying Lesson 2 in our free online video course Getting Ready to Breastfeed.


Bonus Tips:

  • When you are learning how to breastfeed, keep your baby close. Snuggling skin to skin (baby in just a diaper on your bare chest) will help your baby learn to breastfeed.
  • If your baby needs extra help latching, gently shape or “sandwich” the breast by squeezing your thumb and fingers together with the hand holding the breast. If your thumb is opposite baby’s nose when you squeeze, you will then have the breast in line with baby’s lips.
  • If your baby is crying or upset, cuddle to calm her before trying again.

When to ask for help

  • If you feel pain or an uncomfortable pinching sensation during feeds and it is not improving.
  • If, after feeds, your nipple is flattened (like a tube of new lipstick) or has a white line across the centre.
  • If you have blistered, cracked or bleeding nipples.
  • If your baby is not gaining weight.
  • If your baby is not latching. Learning to latch may take time and practice for both mom and baby. Most babies will latch to the breast eventually. Learn what to do if baby is not latching in this in-depth article.

Want to learn more? We’ve created an online course, Simply Breastfeeding. The12 videos will teach you everything you need to know about breastfeeding to get a comfortable, confident start. Enroll today!
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References and More Information:

  1. Ensuring Proper Latch On.HealthyChildren.org. American Academy of Pediatrics, 21 Nov. 2015. Web.
  2. Latching and Positioning Resources.” KellyMom.com. 04 April 2016. Web
  3. Newman, Jack, MD, FRCPC, and Edith Kernerman, IBCLC. “Latching and Feeding Management” nbci.ca International Breastfeeding Centre, 2009. Web.

Learn more about breastfeeding: Breastfeeding Should Not Hurt and Is My Baby Getting Enough Milk?


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Breastfeeding Tips: 6 Ways to Get the Best Possible Start

Breastfeeding can be a bit challenging at first for both you and your baby. Here are 6 breastfeeding tips to make the learning curve easier.

 

1. It’s never too early to prepare.

If you are still pregnant, there are things you can do now to make breastfeeding easier. Begin learning some of the basics of breastfeeding by reading a book or taking a class. Surround yourself with people who believe in breastfeeding. If you don’t have supportive friends or family, consider joining a local mom-to-mom support group or one of the many Facebook breastfeeding groups.

 

2. Think of the early weeks as the 4th trimester.

Skin to skin snuggling helps your newborn transition from the womb to the outside world. Your baby will be completely dependent upon you. Get as much help with your other responsibilities as possible. Freeing yourself from company and other tasks allows you to focus on breastfeeding and your own recovery from birth.

 

3. Find a comfortable position for breastfeeding.

You will be spending at least 8 to 10 hours a day breastfeeding. You will want to be comfortable! There is no one “right position.” The best position is the one that is comfortable for both you and your baby. Many women love the laid back nursing position. (See photos and a description here.)

 

4. Latch deeply.

“Latch” refers to the position of baby’s mouth on the breast. If your baby latches only on the nipple, it will be painful and your baby won’t be able to get enough milk. You will want your baby to latch deeply, with as much breast tissue in his mouth as possible.

 

5. Breastfeed often and on demand.

The best way to have a great milk supply is to breastfeed often, whenever baby seems hungry. A newborn feeds often; 10, 12, 14 times a day or more is not unusual! For the first two or three days after birth you will have small quantities of thick golden milk, perfect for a newborn’s small stomach size. This milk is invaluable for baby’s health. It is full of germ fighting properties.

About three days after birth, you will begin to make larger quantities of milk. The color changes to a whitish color, resembling skim milk. Continue to feed often. The more often baby feeds, the more milk you will make.

 

6. Get help if you are struggling.

If you encounter breastfeeding problems, don’t wait to ask for help. Most breastfeeding problems can be resolved. Look for someone skilled in helping with breastfeeding such as International Board Certified Lactation Consultant. Many areas also have La Leche groups (mom-to-mom support) available for breastfeeding support.

 

Best wishes on your breastfeeding journey.

 

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Keep learning by reading these posts: Breast Milk and Formula: Is there Really a Difference? and When Does Breast Milk Come In?


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